In my many years as a spiritual advisor I have noticed a reoccurring theme with women. They want to love and give all of themselves to the man that they love; the problem is giving all of you leaves no mystery for the man. So ladies I will go into detail about this for you.
Men are attracted to mysterious women. Men love what they cannot have and the woman that does not divulge details about herself has great appeal to most men. It is not only in words, but by that inner core inside of a confidant strong woman that lets anyone know she is a force to be reckoned with.
Perhaps you have observed a woman that is not particularly beautiful, but she always has men attracted to her and wanting to be with her. Why? First off she knows herself. She likes herself. She has confidence within herself. She has learned the art of being a mystery without even trying. She does not give every detail of her life to the man that she meets. She does not drop everything the moment he calls just for him. If he does not show up for a date, she does not give him a second chance. When they ask her questions, she is able to turn that question back to the man. Therefore she never clearly answers. This drives men crazy. To a man this is captivating.
Men always want what they cannot have and that is the lesson you need to learn here and now - if you want to change your dating life around. It is just natural for men to want to know everything about a woman, that is just their curiosity, and they will quiz a woman over and over wanting details of her life. Learn a different way to answer. Here are some examples of how to do it.
When asked about a previous relationship Answer: It ran its course.
What do you want out of life? Happiness
Do you want to be married? Someday
In answering in this manner you leave a man wondering more about you instead of your divulging every detail of your life and thoughts. This way you have not shattered the mystique about you.
A good example of a woman who remained mysterious always was Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis. No one ever truly understood her. In an interview they asked her what she had to say about her life and her reply was, "Interesting." She always had a smile when being photographed even if she was telling off the photographer who was taking the picture. She said, "They will never capture me completely no matter how they try." All of her life Jacqueline attracted men from her early teenage years up to the time of her death. One look at her face and you knew that you could not penetrate to the inner core of this woman. She understood the art of attracting man.
The women that I have counseled and have taken this advice to heart have had a significant change in their relationships with men. Many women I give this advice to just cannot find a way to do this and like a hamster on a wheel they keep going around and around with the same problems in relationships.
Become a mystery and you will captivate men!
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Sending you Love,